1. Share with Real Friends
When you feel the need to share something personal, make sure you do it in person and with people you trust. If you feel the need to share online, don’t say something online you wouldn’t say offline. Being online doesn’t make you anonymous. Your comments won’t just blend into the fray.In fact, there’s a better chance your comments w
ill catch fire, and you’ll get the kind of attention you don’t want or need — kind of like the teen who had 21,000 RSVPs for a birthday party because the event was accidentally shared with the public. Fan pages were even created to promote it. Her house ended up trashed.
2. Turn off Most Location-based Apps
Turn off location services on apps on your smartphone. If you are not sure why this is important, then consider the iPhone app, Girls Around Me. It displays the location of nearby girls. The information is collected from social media platforms. Another example is WeKnowWhatYou’reDoing…. It collects what anyone is doing online from Foursquare check-ins and Facebook public statuses to post it for all to see.ICanStalkU.com offers a helpful guide on how to disable location services for almost every platform and operating system. Also, consider turning off settings in your Facebook, Twitter, and photo services that may unnecessarily need to store your coordinates.
3. Be Selective About Instant Sharing On Social Networks
Turn off instant sharing from apps that track your activity. Everyone doesn’t need to know what you listen to on Spotify, or watch on YouTube. If you feel the need to share from apps, do it with a few people. Facebook now offers you the option to create groups so that you can ensure who will see what.4. Regularly Update Your Settings
Set a reminder to check your profile settings on social networks for any changes at least once every three months. BlissControl is a tool to select what you want to change on any social network and takes you directly to make those changes (password, bio, username, third-party permissions, privacy). Sometimes social networks will make changes that affect you, but you may not be aware of those changes right away. Checking them on a regular basis will ensure you don’t end up sharing information you don’t mean to.5. Consider a Service That Monitors Your Reputation
Facebook has pretty much every chat, photo, and status update saved. You can even download your data at a later date. Google keeps searches for up to seven years.To make sure people see what you want them to see, consider doing a little reputation management. Reputation management services like BrandYourself help you create a page with only approved links about you. Other sites such as Reputation.com will run a scan of your online reputation and alert you when you are mentioned anywhere. Or, you can do it the old-fashioned way and create Google Alerts for your name. (NutshellMail also sends email digests of all social network activity for a certain keyword or term.)
